just one

The girls went to their grandparents' house for the night. So my husband and I had a fun night out with Colin.

Just Colin.

When are we ever with just Colin anymore?

It was so fun. So fun. We were able to do some of his favorite things (like playing with monster trucks and eating pizza with pep-pa-RONIES!) and ended the night snuggled up in our bed watching his favorite movie.

I don't know if its because he's three and talking more or what, but his cuteness is off the charts lately. And we spent the whole night just soaking it up.
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It was the sweetest thing. Colin kept saying how much fun he was having "wiff just Mommy and Daddy and Co-win! Just us!"

We need to do this more. Because my boy is growing up much too fast – I need to soak it up while I can.

spring break!

We’re starting this spring break with the girls having a sleepover at their grandparents’ house. I’ve heard rumors that cupcakes and manicures will be involved so they will probably return to our house glittery and sugared up. (As one should return from a sleepover, in my opinion.)

Then on Tuesday my sister arrives for the week.

Hijinks may occur.

Well, actually, they probably will since we are taking Colin to the dentist for the first time. And based on how much he loves the doctor (screams the WHOLE time) and how big a fan he is of teeth brushing in general (not), this should be fun. So if you hear screaming around 3:30 on Tuesday, don’t be alarmed. Its us.

But other than plans to hit the outlet mall and hit it hard, we’re just going to see where the week takes us!

What are you up to this week?

fashion friday: bonjour!

Think Audrey Hepburn: slim capris and flats, a full skirt, a sheath dress…
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I’ve been wanting a full skirt – and the Poplin full skirt  from Talbots is just about perfect! So timeless when belted and paired with a crisp white shirt – perfect for any one at any age! (although the Champs-Élysées skirt is taking a close second!)
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The Bardot dress from Talbots
is très chic ! I love the addition of the jacket!
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Or go super classic with a navy and white Nautical Stripe Sweater and white capris.
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Or try it in a hoodie! I LOVE this maritime-stripe hoodie from J Crew!
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And you can’t get more elegant than a classic sheath dress!
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on food: part one

(This was originally the longest post in the history of blogging, so I'm breaking it up. You're welcome.)

I've been thinking alot lately about what our family eats. I started by watching the documentary Food, Inc. It was quite interesting to learn about the business of food and the food industry – which, like most industries, is driven by profits not necessarily what is best for their customer -  but I wanted more facts. So then I read The Omnivore's Dilemma by Michael Pollan and Fast Food Nation by Eric Schlosser (both of whom were interviewed for Food Inc). 

Then I watched this video by Robyn O'Brian, author of The Unhealthy Truth. (If you read or click on one thing in this post, click that. Please.) And today I had the pleasure of meeting Robyn and talking with her at a lunch sponsored by Stonyfield.

Its been a lot to process. And frankly, I'm more than a little overwhelmed. It is so much information and very little of it is good. But I was so encouraged by Robyn today, as she shared that she follows the 80/20 rule. Try to eat the best you can 80% of the time and focus on progress, not perfection.

Love it. We're taking some baby steps here in our house.  We've only done a couple things, but we're slowly making some changes and  I thought I'd share what they are and why. I started by focusing on things we consume the most of every day.

First up: Milk and Dairy

We've been drinking organic, pasteurized whole milk in our house
. This isn't new, we've been drinking organic milk since my children were born. But I've expanded this to include all dairy. We consume a ton of dairy products in our household, and since I've been committed to organic milk already, this wasn't a huge jump for us.

We drink/eat organic dairy because dairy products account for a reported 60 to 70 percent of the estrogens we consume through our food. If that seems like a shockingly large number, it’s mainly because milk naturally contains hormones passed along from cows. Milk that's labeled as organic has to come from cows that weren't treated with BGH – a growth factor that conventional milk producers use to increase milk production. BGH may be converted in the body to a hormone called IGF-1 which experts believe increases the risk of certain types of cancer – especially breast and prostate. Robyn just wrote a terrific article called Raging Hormones about hormones in milk. Hormones in milk have also been linked to early puberty in little girls.
Hormones are not the only issue: antibiotics are found in dairy as well. The cows – who are sick due to their unnatural-corn diet and the hormones – are injected with massive doses of antibiotics, which the USDA says may lead to the development of antibiotic-resistant bacteria in people. Plus, "Many doctors believe that too many antibiotics at too early an age is part of the reason that kids are more likely to be allergic: their immune systems aren’t being given the “microbial environment” that they require" according to Raging Hormones.

We drink whole milk because I’ve learned is that when they take the fat out of dairy, they have to use additives – including powdered milk – to preserve the original body and texture.  Plus, your body needs the fat in whole milk to be able to absorb fat-soluble vitamins such as A, D, E, and K.

We drink pasteurized milk because while pasteurization kills harmful bacterias such as E. coli, it also destroys vitamins and healthy enzymes and bacterias. Many organic milks are actually ultra-pasteurized, which involves heating the milk to extremely high temperatures to extend the shelf-life  – and it pretty much destroys anything beneficial in the milk. Jo-Lynne has a wonderful post on the different types of pasteurization. When I can, I buy from a local dairy that offers minimally pasteurized milk.

If organic is too pricey, at least pick up milk that’s labeled rBGH-free, rBST-free. 

I'll stop here since most of you have probably stopped reading already. But there's more to come!

disclosure: i am NOT an expert on this in any way. this is just a few things i found and how i processed it. but the people in those books are, so read for yourself. i attended a lunch today sponsored by stonyfield – i was not compensated, but i did receive a gift bag. with coupons for free organic yogurt! score!

DIY – desks for my girls’ room

The last couple weeks, I’ve been busily reorganizing the kids rooms to clean out things that are no longer needed or don’t fit or are out-grown, selling things on consignment and adding desks to my girls’ room.

Its been busy.

But the girls’ room is finally done. Now that Ellie is in second grade, we decided that she really needed a desk in her room. Ellie gets easily distracted under the best of circumstances, so its understandably hard for her to do homework at the kitchen table. And next year, Gracie will be starting homework as well, so they both needed spaces to study quietly and comfortably.
Their room is not gigantic and was pretty full to begin with. So we started by getting rid of one of their bookcases which we put in the hallway (since many of their books are shared with Colin now). Then I moved their other bookshelf and added a desk for Ellie. I found this desk in Target and it matches their room perfectly. I added an adorable lamp (also from Target) and she was good to go! (Well, she still needs a chair, but we’re close.)

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Now Gracie was tougher. We didn’t have room for another full desk in the room. But we did have a tiny bit of space between the bunk beds and the wall. And a small table. So this is Gracie’s Nook:

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I wanted to make her desk area still special, since she’s technically getting the hand-me-down table. So for her desk, we added a cute little lamp (just $10 at IKEA), a magnet board (old, from IKEA) and those darling wall decals (picked up on clearance at Target for only $2!!) She LOVES it!

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For both of the girls, I made pencil holders out of flower pots ($3 at IKEA) and the leftover wall decals. SO cute!

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So total cost?
Ellie’s desk: $95
Ellie’s lamp: $27
Gracie’s lamp: $10
decals: $2
pots: $6

= $140 (which was paid for with old toys and clothes I sold on consignment!) Not too shabby!!! And the girls are thrilled with their new spaces.

For more great frugal DIY ideas, check out The Centsible Life!

 

 

my digital kid

Gracie has learned to read, so one of her favorite activities is spelling words for me. And she's almost always right. (Disclosure: She did not inherit the spelling gene from me.  occasionally misspell my own name.)

Grace: "Mom, I can spell calm."
Me: "Awesome! Let me hear!"
Grace: "C-O-M. Calm."
Me: "Sweetie, that's not how you spell 'calm.'"
Gracie: "Yuh-huh! DOT COM! C-O-M. COM."

I stand corrected.

 

fashion friday: dreaming of spring

I don’t have a theme today – just awesome things I’ve found this week while I was dreaming of it bring springtime! Imagining exotic treats like flip-flops and tank tops…  Enjoy!!

1. The Sunny Soiree Dress.
Oh. Oh oh oh oh. I love this. Have you ever seen a dress that is more summery??
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2. Eyelet Trim Belted Top
This would not only look totally adorable with white capris and espadrilles! And its on sale for only $8.50!
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3. Striped flutter shrug
This is a gorgeous way to wear the neutral trend! Its so comfy and cool looking.
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4. Ugg Broome boots
I know its spring – and its almost time for sandals. But I’ve been in love with these boots for months. And now, they’re on super sale on 6pm.com! (Plus, get 4% cash back at 6pm.com with ShopatHome!)
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5. Miss America Inez Pump
My friend Julie had these in pink and they are darling. DARLING I tell you!
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6.  A-Bit-Unruly Top
Oh, I just love.
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Well, apparently I am not into bargain shopping today.

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