bling bling!!

Last night, Husband took me out for a surprise date!! (He’s out of town on Valentine’s Day) We went to a movie and out to dinner. Then, he gave me my first Valentine’s Day gift!* LOOK!!!!!  That guy managed to secretly save up and buy me diamonds when I pay all the bills. That sneaky guy. I’ve been eyeing this necklace for awhile now. I loveitloveitloveit!!

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**Not that he’s a deadbeat who doesn’t buy me presents. We usually give presents for our birthdays and Christmas and do something fun for Valentines and our anniversary.

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hey! look what i did!

Well, here’s why my house is a wreck. Instead of cleaning this afternoon, I decided to make this:

dsc03737.JPG Just a little purse, perfect for when you have no kids at all. Or it also fits a diaper and travel wipe container rather well. Here’s a close up of the fabric. I just love it.

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I love this one. Good size, l-o-v-e the fabric. And…

dsc03741.JPGIts reversible!! Fun!

I have no idea why WordPress comtinues to upload only half of every picture. But here’s a full one of the green one. And one of the blue.

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the next big thing on the web

Have you heard of this? It’s all over the blogosphere and Bill Gates has been quoted as saying he believes it “will be the next big thing to hit the internet”, so what is Agloco and will they really pay you for surfing the net?

Rubbish! (or words to that effect) I hear you shout.

I too was sceptical when I heard about it but after spending a few hours googling and reading about it, I have not only come round to the idea but am now thinking it could really work.
How much does it cost me?
Nothing, nada, zilch, £0, $0, €0
What do I have to do?
First you need to sign up, for free, and then you will need to download the viewbar – the viewbar is not ready yet but is expected to be ready for download in about 2-4 weeks. The viewbar will look like this;

and simply sits at the bottom of your screen whilst you browse the web, post to your blog, read other blogs, answer your email, do your online shopping etc etc, thus;


It is not spyware nor does it contain viruses, it simply a toolbar that contains contextual advertisements and a search bar.
How do I earn money from it?
1. By doing exactly what you are doing now, surfing the net, but this time with the Agloco viewbar open on your screen. As of December 22, 2006 Agloco states that for each hour surfed you will gain one share up to a maximum of 5 hours surfed per month, which means that you only have to have the viewbar open on your screen for 5 hours a month. I don’t know anyone, even my grandparents, who spend that little amount of time on the internet each month.

2. You also get paid for the amount of time the people you refer spend on the net, for example since the max amount you can earn with the viewbar is five shares per month (equal’s 5 hours surfed), each time you refer someone and they use the Viewbar for five hours per month, you will gain one extra share for each hour (To a maximum of 5 hours) that they surfed, and then it goes one level
deeper and includes the people that they refered. That could be a whole lot of people. There is one guy, John chow, who has around 3611 referrals on his account, only 455 of which were direct (people that clicked on the link from his website or his emails) the rest are referrals from his referrals! That’s how it works.

3. You earn part of the company based use of the viewbar that month.

4. As a member you will also get a share of any commissions the company gets when another member purchases a product or service from a sponsor company.

What is the referral system? How do I do that?
Simply refer as many people as you can by telling them about it on your blog, having a clickable link on your blog, emailing your friends/family/contacts about it and just generally getting the word out. When you join up you will get given an ID code which the people you refer need to use to sign up and a link that goes directly to the sign up page that includes your ID code. The more people you refer the more money you make.

If the viewbar isn’t available yet why should I sign up now rather than wait and see?
The idea of signing up and starting now is getting as many referrals as you can before the viewbar comes out. Agloco aims to have 10 million users by July 2007, if you wait six months how many people that you know or that visit your site still won’t be members? You want to sign up now and start referring people before they have heard of it, before someone else gets to them…because they will.
Is this a scam?
No. It is founded by people with a history of successful startups and it doesn’t cost anything to join, so you have nothing to lose

Will this actually work?

Most probably, yes. This man seems to think so:
Bill Gates said: “I like the idea behind Agloco, with their solid background and outstanding performance I believe that they will be the next big thing to hit the internet”
A google search on Agloco brings up 1 430,000 search results already and that is only since it started about 6 months ago which means it is definitely something people are talking about and if someone was paying you to surf the internet with their viewbar open for just 5 hours a month don’t you think you would? If someone was paying you for using their search box you would probably use that as well right? Well so would everyone else, so if people are using it then advertisers are going to be falling over themselves to advertise on it right? Thus creating even more money which will surely bring in even more users and so on and so forth.

Is their a minimum age?

Yes, you must be at least 13 to join.

Is it spyware?
A: No, Agloco is not spyware. There is a tool bar to install, but Agloco is totally committed to privacy. They do not sell, rent or give away your personally identifiable personal information to any marketer or advertiser. For more details, see their published Privacy Policy.

Is it a virus?
No. When you download the toolbar from the Agloco site, it will be virus-free.

Do I have to click on ads to make money?
A: No… all you need to do is to actively surf the Internet with the toolbar installed for up to five hours PER MONTH, and get others to join Agloco to do the same.

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So there you go, its easy, its free and it could just make you lots of money. Click here to join and then start referring people. If it asks you for an ID code use BBBV9828.

If this blog entry made you want to join then, once you have clicked and signed up, feel free to copy and paste this entry into your own blog, save you the time and hassle. (I heard about it here.)

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husbands are not girlfriends

Saturday evening, I was sitting smushed on a loveseat gabbing with two beloved girlfriends and one of them brought up a profound truth: “Women need women.”

It got me thinking. My husband is my best friend. But he’s not a girlfriend. And, wonderful as he is, he could never take the place of my girlfriends.

* Girlfriends understand mothering. While my husband obviously is sharing this whole parenting thing with me, I don’t think he truly understands what its like to be a mom. To be with the kids all. the. time. To get so angry and annoyed at your adorable baby that you need to throw something. To get so overwhelmed, frustrated, tired that you find yourself sitting on the floor of your closet, crying. To cry right along with your baby because you just don’t know what else to do. Its so hard to explain to him sometimes. Especially when he’s traveling. I probably come off sounding hormonal (which is probably a true diagnosis, but still…) But I can call a girlfriend and she knows exactly  how I am feeling.

* Three things: fashion, home decor, and celebrity gossip. Most straight guys have no interest in those. (not to make generalizations. There are exceptions to every rule.) The very thought of paint samples makes my husband’s eyes glaze over. But the girlfriends  understand that there really is a difference  between the five shades of tan I have taped to the wall. We can discuss any one of these topics at length. Preferably over drinks.   

* Girlfriends provide advice.  Within my little group of friends, I could probably find someone who has experienced whatever I am going through, whether its a sick child, a laid-off husband, potty-training, mommy guilt, postpartum depression, anything. It is such a comfort to know that I can turn to them with any crazy thing that pops up in my life and they can not only relate, but usually have some great advice to get me started.

* Girlfriends understand reproduction. Yes, husbands got the basics in health class. But girlfriends know. About cramps. What its like to be nauseous for months at a time. Never being comfortable. The pure, unbridled terror you feel when you realize that this baby must get out. And it is going to really, really hurt. And the nursing: being the only one who can feed the baby. Every 2 hours. For weeks at a time. To watch your husband sleeping as you are feeding the baby for the 4th time that night and really, truly wanting to punch him. Hard. They understand what its like to never dream anymore because you haven’t had a complete sleep cycle in months. And they understand how you can love your baby more than life itself and still be a good mom while occasionally dreaming about running away from home. Alone.

* Girlfriends understand my fears. Things that sometimes seem irrational to husbands. (Because, let’s face it, they are irrational. But no less real.) Pretend fears that happen after I watch a movie or CSI too late at night. Very real fears about my kids being wierd. Or something happening to my husband. Or if having another baby will render me unable to wear a bikini any longer (So is it worth the risk? Am I really that shallow? And that’s not good?).

* Girlfriends keep me real. My girlfriends are trustworthy women of God who are not afarid to call me out on things. If I’m struggling with something, they are right there beside me, helping in any way they can. But if I’m wrong (and this only happens very rarely, you realize), they are right there saying, “Are you sure you think that? Why?” or “No way, girl. You need to change that attitude.”  But they don’t just call me out. They help me change and pray for me and support me. They offer sympathy, but not pity. They offer therapy and a good laugh when I need it.

I realize that I am really lucky to have the girlfriends that I have. And now I feel inspired to have a girls’ night out. Go call your girlfriends and have one, too.

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good in theory

I caught Little Sis using a glue stick as chap stick today.

Good news: Glue sticks are non-toxic.

Bad news: It didn’t work. She’s still blabbering on about nothing.

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things i love

 * little sister, when i catch her doing something she’s not supposed to. (“Maybe if I stay really still, she won’t see me on top of the piano….”)

* when little sister calls me “Darlin'” (pronounced “Da-rin”)

*  when you check your bank account and find that you have more money in it then you thought you did.

* when the girls want to make dinner special for their daddy, insisting that we light candles and use a tablecloth. then they set the table all by themselves (some people have two spoons, someone else has only a napkin, flatware and no plate…) and they yell “surprise! we made you a special dinner!” when daddy walks in the door. ironically, they usually want to do this on a night when we’re having something like pancakes and dinner is not really special at all.

* when my kids say, “you washed my clothes? oh, thank you, mama! thank you so much!” (they really say this when they see me folding laundry. honestly.)

* finishing something i made myself, especially when it is a gift for a friend.

(can you tell i’ve been at home with the kiddies all week?)

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