family

three year old cuteness

“Colin, can you spell your name?”

“C-O-3-2-E.”

I think we need to work on spelling still.

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Colin’s enthusiasm is contagious. When something good happens, like pizza or he gets to have a snack or watch Looney Tunes on tv, he says, “That is really really AWESOME!” with ‘awesome’ in a high voice a la Barney Stinson. (Not that he knows who that is, but he really just sounds just like him.) Then he does the “Oh, Yeah!” dance:

This kid cracks us up!

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And for your viewing pleasure, the Turkey Song. Which we heard approximately eleventy billion times in the past week.

then he peed on the ipad

Last week we got an iPad. My superstar husband WON IT at his company’s annual meeting. Because he rocks like that. It certainly put a sunshiney glow on my awful awful time of dealing with head lice (eww) while he was there. I literally screamed when he pulled it out of his bag! So excited! Since the only thing better than an iPad is a FREE iPad, right?
The whole family has been loving it. We had been planning to buy one and, now that we have one, I can say it would totally be worth the money. The kids love playing games on it, drawing and such, although it does make me nervous when they carry it around. Last night, Colin was quietly and innocently playing with his favorite iPad App
while laying on our bed. My husband and I were downstairs helping the girls.

Then, we heard crying. We ran upstairs to see what happened. Colin was standing in the bathroom in a puddle of pee… next to the iPad. He had peed on it.

Yes, you read that right.

He peed. ON THE FREAKING IPAD.

I almost had an aneurysm right there. We figure he had to go potty, but didn’t want to stop playing, so he brought it with him and then had an accident with the iPad in the line of fire.

Thanks to genius Apple engineering, the iPad is fine. Lucky for Colin.

This kid is SUCH a punk.
For the record, he is never, ever allowed to drive my car.

teaching kids about money through giving

This post was underwritten by BMO Harris Bank, which offers a matching $25 on a new savings account opened for your child through their Helpful Steps for Parents program. Learn more at bmoharris.com/parents.

I have found that teaching kids about money is very challenging. Especially when, like us, you live in an area that has income levels that are well above average. This has given my children (and us, actually) a very unrealistic idea of what is a ‘need’ as opposed to a ‘want.’ For example, my eight year old daughter’s Christmas list includes an iPad and “real Uggs, not the fake ones.”
I really, really wish I was joking about that.

So what do we do? How do I teach my kids to value money when they are surrounded by people who throw money around? When I indulge them so often with books at Barnes and Noble or that small toy from the dollar section at Target?

First we started giving the kids allowance. But that didn’t really help. They just liked to sit in their room and count their money like Scrooge McDuck. Then we went on a spending freeze. Mommy and Daddy stopped buying them books, toys and general whatevers in the store. Boy, did that get their attention. If they really, really want Pokemon cards, they need to look at the price, look at their $2 a week allowance and decide if its worth it.

Initially they were blowing through they allowances as soon as we stepped foot in Target. But now, after 2-3 months, they are saving their money. Ellie decided she really wants an iPod Touch. Much cheaper than an iPad and more her size. She is saving her money to try and get a used one. My other daughter has started saving for another American Girl doll. I was amazed that they set their sights so high! I was expecting them to save $10 or so!

Our other lesson with allowances is how to give. They tithe their allowance to church the first Sunday of the month. Then, every year at Christmas, we all give a portion of our Christmas money to buy a farm animal for a family in need. It is so simple, but I cannot even describe how this has affected my kids. We watched the videos of how a single goat can save a family from poverty in Africa.  I remember them saying, “What a cool play house!” And I had to explain that the tiny house with the dirt floor was that family’s home. They were truly amazed and humbled that they could make such a difference in a family’s life with so little.  And they were instantly excited to help. They gave so generously last year – they were able to buy a goat!


This year, when the catalog arrived, they were looking through deciding what their goal was – maybe a sheep or some ducks? Then they came up with an idea. If we got more people to give, we could buy even more! We should get our friends involved! Long story short, our girls are organizing a bake sale on December 5th to raise money to buy farm animals for Africa. They are working with about 20 kids and planning a huge sale. Their goal is to buy a sheep and a goat.  I can not even tell you how proud I am of them! Not only are they excited about giving, but they are mobilizing their friends to do the same.
I was selected for this sponsorship by the Clever Girls Collective. To learn more about BMO Harris Bank, visit their website http://bmoharris.com/parents.

good and fried

I’m taking the rest of the week off from Girlymama.

My kids has lice.
I’m incredibly behind in work because I’ve spent between 3-4 hours a day cleaning, doing loads of laundry and picking nits out of her hair.
I now have another kid with lice.
I slammed my hand in a door and now my finger is twice its normal size and it hurts to type. And this is making work and dealing with the lice very difficult.
My husband gets home tomorrow after one of his longest trips ever, which is partly why I am so stressed out, because I’ve had to deal with all this fun on my own.

I have some cool things coming up – some awesome giveaways and such – so sit tight 🙂

head lice in children

On Friday morning, I got news that made my skin crawl. One of my kids had lice.
LICE.
We’ve never had lice before. I had dreaded this since they started school. Friends of mine who have gone through it had told me its horrors. When the school nurse told me, I just about died.

As my kids have a tendency to get dandruff, I wasn’t sure what the difference was. But the school nurse showed me dandruff on one kid and lice on the other. The dandruff looked similar, but felt different. With lice, the specks were harder and they stuck to the hair. Dandruff could be flicked out of hair, but the lice eggs (nits) stick to the hair – you have to pull them all the way off the piece of hair they are stuck to. She checked all the kids and me and just the one kid had it, thank goodness. So we went to the drugstore and got the shampoo.

How to Treat Head Lice in Children

Here’s what we did to treat lice…

For the infected child:

  • Treated infected child with Lice Killing Shampoo.
  • Spent approximately 5 hours cleaning nit eggs and freaking BUGS out of my child’s hair. The lice comb helped with separating the hair and snagging the bugs (again… EWW!) but it didn’t help with the nits. I had to pull those out with my thumb and finger – I’ve read that flea combs work well with this.
  • Washed hair every day with Lice Repelling Shampoo (not sure if this helps, but I figured it couldn’t hurt.)
  • Checked her hair for more eggs, combing them out, twice a day.
  • Washed her bedding every day (including putting her comforter and pillow in a hot dryer for 30 minutes).
  • Kept her hair pulled back.
  • Put a pillow case behind her on the couch and over her seat in the car.

For the house:

  • Washed everything not nailed down. All bedding (EVERY one’s bedding), all our clothes that had been worn recently, all of our jackets, all the towels.
  • Vacuumed the whole house, including all couches, chairs, mattresses, etc.
  • Vacuumed out the car, especially the seats where the child sits. (Empty vacuum canister and throw away outside.)
  • All pillows and comforters went into a hot dryer for 30 minutes.
  • Sprayed car seats and infected child’s mattress with lice killing spray.
  • Placed all stuffed animals in plastic bags and put in the attic for 3 weeks. (In related news, we have too many stuffed animals.)
  • Placed all throw pillows in plastic bags in the attic for 3 weeks. Washed all throws in hot water.
  • Soaked all hairbrushes and combs in alcohol for 10 minutes.
  • Places all headbands, hair ribbons, etc in plastic bags and put in attic for 3 weeks.

For the family:

Facts about lice I found out from the papers the school nurse gave me and researching on the internet:

  • Lice lives only on humans – not pets.
  • Lice spread easily from one person to another through close contact or through shared clothing or personal items (such as hats or when kids pile their coats together).
  • A louse cannot jump or fly.
  • Lice can be spread via furniture, etc if a non-infected person sits the the same place an infected person just sat.
  • Lice can live for about 24 hours off the scalp. (Again, keep vacuuming!) If a nit falls on a carpet, and it manages to hatch, the louse will die without human blood.

Have you ever dealt with lice in your house? Share your tips!

snowtober

Saturday morning it started snowing. In October.

At first it was kinda fun. The snow was so pretty and it was the first snow of the season, after all.

Less than two hours later, when a giant 20-foot branch slammed into our house and landed on the deck, we decided it wasn’t so much fun after all.

What followed was probably the most scared I’ve been in my home. We were helpless – when a giant branch landed inches from where my husband and I had been standing a minute before we decided to stay inside. There was nothing we could do except check out the window when we heard something fall. Or hit the roof. Or bang into the kitchen window. Nothing like seeing this outside the kitchen window when you normally see the swingset.

We lay in bed that night hearing cracks followed by trees falling. Literally every 15 minutes or so we heard something. We bolted out of bed at around 2:30am when something banged into the roof over our bedroom, but it was so dark we couldn’t see what happened.

The next morning we woke up to this:

Our road is still closed.

Our poor tree…

How did you fare?

annual fall sickness

On Saturday this past weekend, I woke up feeling sick.I managed to power through the brunch with the help of DayQuil, then crashed into bed that afternoon.

Saturday night, Ellie started throwing up. And throwing up more. And more. Which is really really annoying, because that makes like 3 years in a row that we’ve had the stomach bug the week of Halloween. Luckily, this time, the rest of us were spared from the stomach thing. Colin has definitely put in his time – kid probably has an iron stomach after all he went through in September!

I don’t remember much about Monday and Tuesday is a bit blurry… Now its Thursday, and I’m just starting to feel a bit better, at least while I have cold medicine in my system.

Which is good since today I have to make 36 Angry Birds cupcakes for Ellie’s class, teachers, bus drivers, etc for tomorrow to alleviate my guilt about missing her Halloween parade.  I’ll keep you posted – these cupcakes are much more advanced than my usual “buying cupcakes at the grocery store” routine I typically do for class parties!

get my craft on

Yesterday I had a rare free afternoon. So I decided to sew.

I haven’t sewn in forever – the last thing I made was a Christmas gift for my mother-in-law. In 2009. I used to sew all the time – I even had a little etsy shop where I sold quilts and blankets and other baby items. My sewing dropped off significantly when Colin was born.

This is a coincidence, surely.

Anyway, things just are so busy all the time. There always is cleaning or cooking or work or something else to be done. So this is something that always gets put off. But yesterday I spent the afternoon making a darling little quilt with fabric I fell in love with back in July.
I forgot how much I like being crafty.
I think I should do this more….