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Summer Plan

Within one day of summer vacation, I was tearing my hair out.

(I’m not alone here, right?)

I swear, my kids had completely forgotten how to entertain themselves at all. A whole school of constant structure/activities/learning/friends was awesome – but after less than 24 hours, my kids were at loose ends with no idea what to do all day.

I was sitting at my desk, trying to finish up some work and I was interrupted 12 times in one hour. It was too hot, they were bored, Colin had a booger, could they play in the attic, could they play with playdoh, can they watch tv now, where was the cat food, someone was in someone else’s room…

(BANGS HEAD ON DESK)

I spent that whole evening making a list. Each child got a folder with their name on it. Meet my sanity saver.

Page one: SCHEDULE
Each child has a morning, afternoon and evening list of activities and chores to check off. Activities like reading and practicing instruments,  chores like cleaning the litter box and picking up toys.  We have no TV mornings, and they are only allowed to watch a show after all their checklist is complete. Now, by 4:00 in the afternoon, my kids have practiced instruments, read for an hour, cleaned up the house and done all their chores. (Colin’s list is obviously pretty simple, but of course he had to have one too 🙂

These are in a plastic sleeve, so they can check off boxes with dry erase markers every week.

Page two: READING LOG
Each of the girls has a reading log where they track how long they read, what book and how many pages.

Page three: EXTRAS
This page has extra chores the kids can do to earn some extra spending money, like weeding the flower beds (50¢), folding the laundry (75¢), really cleaning the bathroom ($1). Kids have to check with me before doing these, lest we have arguments over who did what!

Page four: SERVICE
This page has ideas of things they can do to serve others, like a list of people to write letters/draw pictures for and ways they can help us (reading to Colin, playing a game or activity he wants).

Page five: BIBLE MEMORY
Each child also has a list of Bible Memory verses for the summer that they are working on and some Bible passages they are reading. This is the Bible Memory Work Checklist we are using – I HIGHLY recommend it!

How to you help plan your summer?

my week in instagram

This week was so so busy. But super fun!

A huge part of my week was spent sitting by the pool while the kids took lessons.
We went for two weeks of lessons every day, so for two hours every morning, we were hanging out at the Y.

Thursday was dress rehearsal for dance. They let the little girls stay in the auditorium to watch the pointe ensemble.
Gracie was in awe. She was leaning forward, on the edge of her seat.
When it was over, she turned to me and said, eyes shining, “I’m going to do that someday.”

Poor Colin got two shots, then had to get several vials of blood drawn for testing.
The deserved ice cream, that did.
He was very generous and offered me some.
I passed.

The weekend was spent picking out tile.
Do you know how many shades of tan-ish tile there are?
A million billion zillion.
We went with the darker one.
We’re ripping out the mudroom floor today.
By “we” I mean my husband and his dad.
I will bring them cold drinks and offer helpful advice,
like “Don’t get grout on the carpet” and “Are you sure you’re doing this right?”

What did you Instagram this week?

gone fishin’

This weekend, we went fishing! Colin is now an expert fisherman and is telling everyone he meets how to catch fish and all about fishing.

(Sorry, nice lady behind us in line at the grocery store who smiled politely when Colin told you all about how to put worms on hooks! Your pained smile said it all!)

Colin also knows how to drive a boat if you are in need of a ship captain.

He said next time he is bringing a pirate flag to put on the boat so he can scare all the other boats in the lake and be the pirate king!

becoming ‘that mom’

Yesterday Ellie had a tubing trip with her Girl Scout troop. In my attempt to be organized, I had printed out the permission slip with all the details and paper clipped it in my planner so I wouldn’t forget. I followed all the instructions, packed everything she needed and layered her with sunscreen. We pulled into the parking lot of her school at 12:25 – exactly 5 minutes before they were scheduled to leave.

The parking lot was completely empty.

I’m panicking – the permission slip just said “drop off point at 12:30.” Did I have the wrong drop off point? This was always the drop off point! I’m calling people’s cell phones, but no one is answering. Calling my husband, trying to figure it out. I finally was searching old emails and found one that said the drop off point was – you guessed it – the tubing place. NOT the school. We were at least half an hour away – I was driving as fast as I could, trying to call people and tell them to wait, but couldn’t get hold of anyone.

I knew there was a very good chance she was going to miss this trip. Because of me.

I’m so tired of being ‘that mom.’ The mom who is always late, forgetting things, getting the phone calls and emails because I’m about to miss deadlines.  I’m tired of being such a spaz. I don’t know what else to do. I already write practically everything down and have alerts sent to my phone with reminders. And yet I still do stuff like this. I hate it. It makes me feel like a failure. Like I’m the worst mom ever.

And I swear it pretty much only happens with Girl Scouts. I don’t know why I can’t get it together with this. I hate that I always drop the ball with this activity. Its like I am physically unable to do anything right with them. What is my problem?

I cried almost the whole way to the tubing place. I was so frustrated and mad at myself.

Poor Ellie.

She was comforting me from the backseat. Saying, “Its okay, Mom. Everyone makes mistakes. Its just tubing. Don’t worry. Its okay.”

I don’t deserve this kid.

We made it with one minute to spare. And once again, all the Girl Scout moms probably thought I was the crazy spaz I usually am in front of them, as I show up completely frazzled with red eyes from crying. But she made it. And she had a terrific time.

Thank God for small favors.

 

 

magical moments in motherhood

A big thanks to Disney Baby for sponsoring this post and the Disney Baby “Little Character” Contest.

Magical moments are everywhere – but in motherhood, they tend to get lost in the everyday craziness of parenting. Sometimes I’m so wrapped up in feedings, dirty diapers, the messy house, whiny toddlers… all wrapped up in a big fat bow of exhaustion. I forget how magical the little things are: tiny arms giving you a hug, a little hand wrapped around your finger while you breathe in that baby smell, rocking your baby to sleep – watching those eyes slowly close, those very first “mama”s… Magic.

I honestly have very few memories of when Gracie was a baby. Its terrible. With two babies so close in age and a husband working and going to school, I was just surviving day-to-day, going to sleepless night to sleepless night. Thank goodness for cameras!

When Disney Baby asked for my magical memories of my babies, I instantly remembered one. Grace was about a month old, Ellie was 19 months. Grace was in the bouncy seat crying away while I made a quick dinner for me and Ellie. I think Ellie was watching Finding Nemo in the living room. Suddenly, Grace was quiet. I peeked around the corner of the kitchen and saw this:

Ellie was playing with her sister. Grace looks cautious here, but she was fascinated. They played for like ten minutes (which for an 19 month old and one month old is a long time). It warmed my exhausted mommy heart to the core. They were playing. For the very first time. I started to feel like we could do this. Our family was coming together and we were going to make it. Then, I caught this…
Oh the sweetness breaks my heart still. I’m going to have this picture by my bed when they’re both teenagers so I can remember the sweetness. And remember the magic time when my babies were babies and just discovering each other.

Share your magical moment and you could be a winner

Do you have a magical moment with a newborn to 24-month-old? It could be a winner! Just upload your magical moment to Disney Baby‘s Little Character Contest now through June 18 and you could be a weekly winner, a fan favorite winner or a grand prize winner of amazing prizes. Prizes include $10,000 scholarship, a trip to LA plus $500 shopping spree, a 1 year supply of Huggies® diapers, your baby’s photo in a national magazine, a trip to a Beaches Resort and more!

For more information on the Little Character contest, the rules, the lists of all the prizes and more, go to Disney Baby’s Little Character Contest page.

If you need me, I’ll be right here. Looking at old pictures and wondering how my babies got to be so darn big so darn fast. Keep those magical moments close to your heart!

 

summer fun

Its the last week of school.

(Oh, noes! Now what?)

We kicked off the summer by heading to a minor league baseball game. What says summer more than baseball? We went to the Camden Riversharks game and the kids had a blast!

Then on Sunday, we headed to the Crayola Experience in Easton, PA. It was so fun – the kids had a blast! We were here for two hours, but still didn’t see everything. Make sure to plan for at least 3! And hit the gift shop – we got tons of great deals on Crayola products there!!


back to the grind….

I’m sitting in front of the computer for the first time in forever. Sleeping in my own bed, showering in my own shower, doing my own dishes and cleaning the house…

Oh, wait. That part isn’t fun.

Today I’m working my way through about 20 loads of laundry, filling up our fridge, cleaning the sty that is our house right now.Does anyone know how a house gets dirty when there is no one here? I just don’t get it.

And trying to get everything done with my cats on top of me. They seem convinced that I will be leaving again, so they are determined to be touching me every second they can. Have you ever tried to work at the computer with a cat in your lap? Or cleaned the bathroom with a cat trying to climb up your leg? Its super fun.

Anyway – I have so much to share with you all. Its been an incredible two weeks and I’m dying to tell you all about it! Give me a day to get organized and we’ll be back to our regularly scheduled programming 😉

 

 

 

life is sweet

I’m back!

After we arrived home at 3am on Wednesday morning, I headed back out to Orlando on Thursday am for the SheCon Expo.

BOY do I have some travel adventures for you. Including a broken down train, running through multiple airports and other nonsense. Now I’m headed out camping with the family for a few days with no cell phone, no internet. Just what the doctor ordered! Time for my favorite people…