and then we got a dog

Meet Winston.

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He’s a one year old, beagle/border collie mix.

meeting winstonThis sweet boy joined the family on Saturday and we’ve been adjusting to each other. But one thing is certain.

Winston is in love.

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He cannot get enough of these kids. Wherever they are, he’s right behind. Wagging his tail and happy as a clam.

Except for this morning when they all had to go to school. Then he was very, very sad…

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Stay tuned. I’m sure hijinks will ensue shortly.

 

there goes my baby

Gracie was REALLY excited for the first day of school.

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Colin… not so much.

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But the excitement of riding the bus was enough to cheer them up!

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And they’re off!

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Its a new era. We no longer have babies, toddlers or preschoolers. We have KIDS.

Its bittersweet.

 

we really live here

I was driving yesterday and it struck me.

We live here.

Not in a “Wow, its so pretty, we’re so lucky” way. But a “We actually LIVE here.”

We’re not on vacation. We’re not going home.

This is our home.  This is our new town. Our new school. Our new grocery store. Our new Target (sans Starbucks. SOB!). Our new church.

Now the permanence of the move is sinking in. As we see our stuff unpacked and settling into the new house. As we see life in our old community going on without us. As we make plans here.

Its half good, half depressing. 90% of the time, I’m happy. I’m loving our new home and our new neighborhood. So many times a day, I’ll be doing something around the house or running errands around town…  and I just stop and look around.

And smile. I really do love it here. Even when we’re not flying kites on the beach at sunset…

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But, the other day, I found myself thinking of a friend. And suddenly missing her so much, I started to cry. So many important, treasured, loved people are no longer a quick coffee date away. I can see them online, but its not the same. Seeing my nephew turn two via Instagram is not the same as being there are seeing his smile and hearing his giggles. Seeing pictures of the ultrasound on Facebook isn’t the same as seeing my friend’s baby bump in person. Google chatting with my co-workers all day isn’t the same as sitting in the same office and seeing their faces and hearing their laughter.

I love it here. But I miss so very much.

we did it!

We really moved!

It sounded like such a theoretical thing for so long. Were we really going to just pack up everything and move to a entirely new place? Where we’ve never lived before? Where we didn’t know anyone?

We did it.

We moved in just over 2 weeks ago and we are loving Rhode Island so far! We have fallen completely in love with our new neighborhood. The kids have made fast friends with the neighbors and have had a blast running from house to house with their new ‘gang’. We even had a s’mores party last weekend:

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We have been settling into our new home, trying to unpack and figure out where to put things and filling in gaps (like our family room with a single armchair in it). The kids have been extremely patient while my husband and I have dragged them store to store debating couches.

We got our town beach pass. Its incredible that we have a gorgeous beach we can go to whenever we want! We’re on the bay, so no big waves, but we have been told by friends about some beautiful state beaches close by that we can try.

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We just can’t believe how beautiful it is here. I was driving back from the grocery store the other day and I had to stop and take a picture. We really live HERE.

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Eventually, I’ll be back writing here. Now, I’m still practically in a coma by 7pm. We’re all totally exhausted from this move and trying to recover before school starts in two weeks.

But we’re here. We made it. We’re adjusting. We’re happy.

 

 

 

this is it

This is the big week!

This week we are moving into our new house! Finally! Its been almost 5 weeks since we moved out of our house in Philadelphia. We’ve certainly had lots of fun and adventures since then. but we are very ready to settle into our new home and just be normal again. We’re driving the 10 hour drive out to Rhode Island on Wednesday, close on the house on Thursday and move in on Friday.

The kids are beyond excited – they’ve never seen the house. Only a few pictures. We can’t wait to show them their new home.

I can’t wait to sleep in my own bed. Unpack clothes in my new [huge] closet.   Cook in my new kitchen.

I can’t wait to show you the house!!

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the longest day

When we flew to Greece, we went a rather unconventional route.

When we were searching high and low for airline tickets, trying to find the best deal, we discovered Aeroflot. Aeroflot is the official airline of Russia. No one we knew had flown it before and the review online were quite mixed. We read about many people having horrible experiences, but you can find those about US airlines as well. But the savings were so much that we decided to risk it.

Our flight there was pretty good! We flew to Moscow with only a slight delay and we (and our luggage) managed to catch our flight to Athens with only 30 minutes between flights! It required an all-out dash through the Moscow airport, but we made it!

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The flight home was rough. We left Athens at 1AM and flew 3 hours to Moscow. That flight wasn’t too bad. The kids all fell asleep before take-off and slept the entire flight. My husband and I were not so lucky, but we did manage to catch a few zzzzzzzs. Then we had a layover in Moscow. Where we crashed.

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Then came the extra fun part. We went to our gate to leave. Everyone was there, waiting to go on.

And we all just stood there. For like AN HOUR.

Every now and then, someone would go up to the people working behind the desk at the gate to ask what was going on. They all shook their heads and claimed they didn’t know anything.

IT WAS SO FRUSTRATING. They were talking to people on walkie-talkies and phones, CLEARLY something was going on. But they refused to tell the passengers anything. The flight time changed on the outbound flight board – NO announcement from the Aeroflot employees at the gate. At one point, our flight completely disappeared off the outbound flights board. The Aeroflot workers still claimed not to know anything.  It was insane – obviously something was going on. WHY NOT TELL US? So frustrating. Then – I loved this part – the Aeroflot employees were getting annoyed at passengers asking questions. Because they were clearly out of line or something. Finally someone told a passenger that we wouldn’t be leaving for another 2 hours and possibly not at all. But they didn’t know anything and we had to find the Aeroflot information desk to get any information.

Really?

So we found the Aeroflot info desk, which was located in another terminal. Where the employees had to… wait for it… call the GATE to get information on what was going on.  They assured us that the flight was not canceled, but we obviously didn’t believe them. They gave us vouchers for lunch, which was terrific, as even a bottle of water in the Moscow airport was $3.

Finally… FINALLY… they announced boarding. Quietly. I truly wonder if everyone ended up on the plane. Somehow, the flight left 3 hours late, but we arrived in DC 4 hours late. But whatever. We got there 10 hours later in one piece, so I guess that’s a successful trip.

But some tips for traveling Aeroflot:

1. Bring food.  Yes, airline food is gross. But the food we were served on Aeroflot was exceptionally horrible. Our kids refused to eat it – and so did we. And they will wake you up to feed you, so next time I will put a post-it note on my sleep shade that says “Do not wake me up!”
2. Bring earplugs. Every flight we were on had very loud children, including one baby who cried for about 9 hours straight. Lots of kids running around the plane, climbing on seats and such. And both flights to and from Greece had HUGE school groups of kids ages 10-14 who had only like 3 chaperones. It was VERY loud.
3. Bring entertainment. Most of the movies are in Russian. The newspapers and magazines are Russian. So if you don’t speak Russian, you need to bring a book and an iPad or something.
4. Be flexible. You will have delays with no explanation.  Someone will be sitting at the check-in desk chatting with a co-worker and refuse to check you in because “its not time yet”, even though it wasn’t listed anywhere what the check-in time is. Pack a carry-on with your toothbrushes, change of clothes and other essentials in case your luggage doesn’t make it.
5. Pad your schedule. Do NOT arrange for your flight to arrive a few hours before your cruise ship leaves. Don’t do that to yourself. Add a day to your trip so you don’t have to worry if there is a delay or cancellation!

Overall, if you want to save money, Aeroflot is a good option. Its bare-bones service, old planes and disorganized. But you get there for cheap. We would definitely consider it again for a long flight. I mean, long flights in coach pretty much stink regardless of what airline you’re on, so why not save some cash? Almost all of the flight attendants are very nice and the bathrooms stayed pretty clean the whole flight. You can order a kids meal or a special meal if you do it 3 days before (HIGHLY recommend this).