Author: Melissa

GOAL!

Saturday morning started bright and early with an 8:00 soccer game. As in 8:00 AM. (Why, Mr. Soccer Director? WHY?!?) Then, after coming home and taking a nap, the family threw on just some of our ridiculous amount of Philadelphia Union gear and headed down to PPL Park for the game!

We had tons of fun, enjoying Dollar Dog Night and cheering the Union to victory! (For the record, my husband told the kids he would buy them as many hot dogs as they wanted. Ellie immediately claimed she was going to eat 15 hot dogs. Actual hot dog consumption: 1. She's all talk.) 

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And how about this for our Christmas card picture? Think people will know what team we cheer for?
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Our kids all fell asleep singing "DOOP." If you're not a Union fan, you may not know Doop – the song we sing when the Union score a goal. It has extremely complicated lyrics that only true fans know. But I'll break the rules and share them with you. Ready? Write this down!
"DOOP DOOP DOOP da da DOOP DOOP DOOP da DOOP DOOP DOOP da da DOOP DOOP DOOP." (repeat the entire car ride home.)
Now you'll blend right in at the game! Or Colin can teach you his favorite Union song…

fashion friday: stella & dot

This morning I’m having a Stella & Dot party at my house. Wanna join?

They have fantastic jewelry. FABULOUS. I could probably close my eyes and pick a page in the catalog and be perfectly happy with whatever I ended up with.

Now, I already have this little beauty, the Rivera Coin Necklace.

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and I’m planning to get the Riviera Pendant Necklace and Riviera Coin Earrings to complete my collection.

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And I’ve been eyeing this Aimee Locket Necklace:

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And this Together Forever Necklace is GORGEOUS!

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I can’t decide. Which is your favorite?

Did you do a fashion post today? Link on up!

letting go of the future

Yesterday morning, we found out that my husband's company was being bought out. Suddenly our future wasn't quite as sure as we thought it was. Our Master Plan for the next 5 years was suddenly irrelevant.
His department is now redundant.
Would he be laid off?
Would he be transferred?
Where?
Should he look for a new job now?
Should we wait it out?

At lunch, there was a meeting and it sounds like his job is secure for at least another year, so we have some time to explore options. (Sigh of relief.)

I wish I could say that I spent the day in a peaceful state of not worrying, praying and surrendering our future to God, being the very personification of Philippians 4:6-7: "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."

There was no peace beyond understanding for me yesterday. Instead, I was worrying over different possibilities, trying to anticipate what would happen and in general getting way ahead of myself and – as a result – I pretty much spent the day biting my nails, unable to concentrate and feeling vaguely sick to my stomach.

I know that our future is in the hands of God alone. Every Master Plan item we put on our family spreadsheet (Yes, we have a Master Plan on a spreadsheet with goals and such. Shut up. ) Despite our Type A-Planner tendencies, we also fully realize that every goal and activity on our Master Plan sheet is totally out of our control. We have no way of knowing what will happen next year, next month or next hour. Are we trusting ourselves for our future? Or God?

This was a huge reminder of that.

I need to give up on my Master Plan and let God work out His.

"Many are the plans in the mind of a man,
   but it is the purpose of the LORD that will stand.."
Proverbs 19:21

 

hijinks to come

Looking at our summer schedule is giving me a headache already. We're almost solidly booked… for the entire summer! ACK!

We have camps, VBS, vacations, sports, lessons, camping… How does this happen? Its still April!!

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We're trying a new strategy with Gracie and getting her to stop sucking her thumb. We've been ending every day in tears lately, so we're trying positive reinforcement. If she goes all day without us having to remind her not to suck her thumb, she gets a sticker. When she has 7 stickers, she gets to go to Barnes & Noble to pick out a book.
She is SO excited about this – it worked yesterday and today (so far) and she's already picked out her book she wants! We're still using her thumb guard and that spicy nail polish stuff to help her, but no tears so far!

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Speaking of projects, tomorrow Colin will be wearing underpants. We've been sort-of potty training for awhile, but tomorrow we're saying "Bye Bye, Diapers" and – most likely – "Hello, Wine With Lunch!" for Mommy.
LORD, GIVE ME STRENGTH!!
Man, I hate potty training. It should be fun for you all, at least, while you watch me slowly lose my mind trying to convince a three-year-old to do something he DOES NOT WANT TO DO. AT ALL.

 

fashion friday: LOFT sale

Darn you, Loft! Darn you with your cute clothes and 40% off the entire store sale!

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The Ruffle Open Front Cardigan is calling my name. Loudly.

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I do have some tshirts that need replacing – and for under $10, its a great time to stock up!

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I’ve been wanting a pair of cropped jeans, since my old ones don’t fit anymore.

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Oh. Oh oh oh. I LOVE THIS gold and silver discs necklace!!!

Happy shopping, my lovlies!!! Did you do a fashion post today? Link on up!!

just when i’m planning on blog fodder…

Colin was amazing at the dentist. AMAZING. PERFECT. The dentist was MARVELING at how well he did.

Darn it. Just when I thought I'd have an amazing and funny story to share today.

How rude of him.

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Will blog more later. Organizing an Easter breakfast at church and planning a dinner for 16 after. For some reason that seemed like a good idea at the time….

on food – part two: food dyes and HFCS

Last week, I shared a bit of background of what I’ve been reading and why we’re rethinking some of the foods we have in our house and the baby-steps we are taking to change.

First, we’ve made the switch to full-fat milk, organic dairy products. And we’ve also been eliminating two more things from our diets in step two:

Food Dyes

Why did I pick food dyes? Well, from what I’ve read, they not only have they been linked to long-term health problems, but these chemicals often have immediate and devastating effects on children’s behavior and ability to learn. (Now my kids don’t seem to have reactions to food dyes, but I have many friends whose kids have insane reactions to dye.) What really sealed the deal for me was that in Europe foods containing artificial food dyes require warning labels on them that tell parents of these risks to children. WARNING LABELS.

And, well, frankly – the dyes are generally in food that probably isn’t really all that healthy anyway, so this has been an easy change to make. Two great reads:
The Color of Trouble on Spoonfed
Food Dyes’ Favor Fades as Possible Links to Hyperactivity Emerge
in the Washington Post.

HFCS

Now, a somewhat controverisal issue, High Fructose Corn Syrup. AKA “corn sugar.” That’s right, it’s no longer “high fructose corn syrup,” but “corn sugar”— that the corn industry hopes will subtly convince you that “sugar” and “corn sugar” are interchangeable ingredients. Wrong.

It’s argued that HFCS is fundamentally identical to sugar with similar amounts of glucose and fructose. But scientists have expressed doubt over this argument, citing a Princeton University study in which lab rats became obese drinking HFCS (which has a higher proportion of fructose than glucose) while other rats that drank an equal amount of sucrose (which has a 50-50 proportion of fructose and glucose) remained at a normal weight.

Here’s the thing about HFCS, regardless of whether it has any independent association with weight gain, diabetes, heart disease, cancer, etc:  this ingredient is essentially (to borrow a term from Michael Pollan) a “food item” — something that looks like food, something that companies want us to think is food, but which is in fact a creation of science. Corn sugar is not found anywhere in corn. It is made in a lab, where they must change the molecular structure of the corn.

The article A Sweetener With a Bad Rap in the New York Times give a good two-sided version of the story, basically while the charts seem to really link the huge rise in obesity and diabetes to the introduction of HFCS, its not technically proven.

What concerns me most about HFCS is that it is everywhere, in so much that we eat. And not just sugary drinks or candy – because not only is HFCS is cheaper than sugar, but it’s also a preservative and stabiliser in food products to enhance and prolong their shelf life on grocery store shelves. Its in that whole wheat bread you’re buying because its healthier. Its in tomato sauce, ketchup, crackers, salad dressing, soup,  juice… even things we don’t think of like pretzels and chips!

And I have to add – its not just HFCS. We are all getting too much sugar – in any form – so reducing our sugar intake in general is important. So, I’m trying to look for products that use pure cane sugar—or better — that have no sugar at all.   I’m especially looking to cut HFCS from things that do not need extra sweetening, like bread, salad dressing, crackers, etc. And I’ve been pleased that it has not been nearly as hard as I thought it would be.

How I’m doing this:

I went to the grocery store – by myself  – one afternoon and took the time to read the labels of the products we buy. There are 10 varieties of ketchup and my kids LOVE ketchup – and I found that  Heinz now makes a Simply Heinz Ketchup that tastes exactly the same, but has all natural ingredients – no HFCS. (Their organic variety is the same.) So now, that’s the ketchup I buy. Easy!
There was very little we had to actually give up (‘fruit snacks’, being one) – we mainly just changed a few brands and my kids barely noticed.

For example, My kids favorite snacks are:
1. fruit (obviously no dyes or HFCS there)
2. Goldfish Crackers (sticking to regular varieties or whole grains. Avoid the the colored version, as they have food dyes.)
3. Pretzels (finding ones with simple ingredient lists. While Rold Gold Pretzel Sticks have HFCS, Snyder’s of Hanover Pretzel Sticks have no sugar at all and only 7 ingredients, all of which I can pronounce.)

So they still have their 3 favorite snacks, just healthier versions.

So far the dairy switch and the food dye and HFCS switches have been relatively painless. Our grocery bill has gone up a bit as we added organic yogurt and cheese to the milk we were already buying and I’ve been buying more produce, but its been manageable.

I’ll keep you posted on our next baby step!